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JUDGING OTHERS:


A man once called for his four sons and sent each of them to go and look at pear tree that was miles away from their home.
1) One son goes to that tree in winter season.
2) The second in spring.
3) The third in summer.
4) And the youngest son goes in autumn.

After a year passed father asked four sons. If they visited the tree and could describe to him what they have seen,
1) The first son said tree was ugly, bent, twisted,
2) Second son said are you kidding. The tree was covered with fresh green buds,
3) Disagreeing from two brothers the third son said it was full of blossom that smell so sweat. It is the most beautiful thing i had ever seen in my life,
4) Last son said they are all wrong dad. The tree was ripe and drooping with fruit It was so full of life.

Dad explained to his sons they were all correct each of them had seen only one season in life of tree and then they taught them a lesson that you cannot judge a tree or a person by only one season or by only one phase of their life. The essence of who they are can only be measured at the end when all seasons are ended.
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer and fulfillment of your  fall or autumn .let's not allow pain of one season to destroy joy of rest. Let's not judge life by one difficult season. Judge life as better time are sure to come sooner or later.
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